http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=hargrove&GSbyrel=in&GSdyrel=in&GSst=19&GScnty=1030&GScntry=4&GSob=n&GRid=36034246&df=all&
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His 1st wife was Lucy Rucker (listed as dying 1862) and married 2nd wife Emily Grimes in Pettis Co, MO 4/9/1863, 3rd wife Mary E. Jackson 7/1/1869 Pettis Co, MO & 4th wife was Martha Rowden (Routen)..Not sure if the 3rd marriage is correct..
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His brother Reuben Hargrove is listed as dying in 1863..No specific month, and no more details others than what has already been posted about his death on this board in Pettis Co, MO listed in the Graves Co, KY History Book..The Graves Co, KY History Book only writes about James Wesley Hargrove's marriages to Lucy Rucker and Martha Rowden..
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Co I 48th Kentucky Infantry name of the other one in John's post is James M. Hargrove--per pension file application 1920...His wife's name is listed as Alice..