Married names can throw off the hunt. My James Wyatt Starr would have been age 20 at the time of the collapse. Girls in the same Wyatt households as C.B. Wyatt and James Wyatt Starr in 1850 and 1860 were S.L. Wyatt, who would have been 21 in 1863; Elvira Underwood, who would have been 17 in 1863; Emeline Wyatt, age 27 in 1863; Mary Wyatt age 25 in 1863. So my theory on this family may be out in left field.