Ms. Bennett,
I thought you might be interested in visiting this site dedicated to Colonel Arthur Fremantle of the Coldstream Guards, who was a famous observer and traveler in the Confederacy.
You might pick-up on some things that would be of special interest to a British visitor and there are email addresses where you could contact and ask some of your countrymen for their suggestions.
I hope you enjoy your visit and please tell us about your journey afterwards.
Jim Martin