Hi Dennis, Sorry to keep writing so much,but the James that called you (Evan's son) must be the one who probably put the marker on grandpa's grave,not the other James(Norman's son). That's the "James" listed with telephone # at the cemetery. He must also live in San Antonio which makes sense since several family members made that town their home. Aunt Ida lived there for over 50 years before she passed. Regards,Charles.