Richard:
Wish I could help you with the grave information, but don't have that location. Charity Weddle Turman was my great aunt, sister of my great grandfather John Richard Weddle. The Turmans and Weddles resided in Bates county in the 1850's and I know that after the civil war ended, the Turman's were unable to return to Bates county due to his activities during the war. You might contact my son David Weddle at vetsqrd.com as he is active in the genealogy area.
David Weddle