Pam,
You're very welcomed. Confusing things further is the fact that the three stones (two in Wilcox and one in St. Clair) all have different birth and death years. If you and your Wilcox County group decide to remove the Confederate stone from the grave there, perhaps a family member of Jesse Reeves of St. Clair County would be interested in it, as, in spite of likely having the dates wrong, at least it has the unit information correct.
Rick